Advice on dating divorced men with kids
If and when you two decide to get married, let it be for love and togetherness instead of simply wanting to sport the wedding ring and having a ready-made family.
Many daters associate divorced people with excess baggage.
Be strong and independent A divorced man with kids is at times so burdened with taking care of others that he would hate it if his partner came off as needy and dependent too.
On the contrary he is more likely to be attracted to you if he sees you as a strong and independent woman who has a fulfilling social life of her own and does not need him to keep her entertained.
Your partner’s kids will always keep their supreme expression of love and devotion for their biological mom unless they have been at the receiving end of her violent or abusive behavior.So it would serve no point in trying to compete with your partner’s ex-wife or bribe the kids with treats into displaying more love for you.Her cakes will always be much softer and she will always be the first to know what is bothering the kids.This may seem difficult to accept, particularly if you have been looking forward to an intimate evening with your partner for the whole of the week.However the thing to remember is that with kids waiting at home, all plans are liable to change and that too at very short notice.