Advice on dating older guys
The gay world can be very open minded about many things.
In previous decades, being gay seemed to eradicate (for a while anyway) social distinctions — class, money and employment status.
But exactly how do you find out without asking him outright and getting a look like you’ve just asked him to marry you?
Figuring out what is going on in a guy’s mind in the first few weeks of dating would really help a woman feel more assured, knowing that she is in control of the situation.
Many relationships worked very well (a CEO dating a waiter, for example) and status wasn’t really an issue.
In the straight world, when an older man dates a younger woman, these relationships can work successfully for both concerned.
Be honest and open, and if it’s a temporary relationship for you and a permanent relationship to the other guy, you need to be fair to him and end the relationship.Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.There was something about an older masculine man established in life, knowing his own mind and with a life plan worked out. There are many other reasons younger guys are attracted to older men.Through the ‘80s and ‘90s, if you were older, you were thought to have escaped the AIDS epidemic — this was a trophy in itself.