Dating advice shy people
Probably not because you are so conscious of your own actions.
Well most likely the other person is equally concerned about the impression they are making on you! In fact, shy people are commonly viewed as good listeners, humble and mysterious. Positively influence your feelings by positively changing your behavior.
My first advice is to have compassion for yourself. Do you critique (or notice) every behavior other people make?
She finds joy in other people's happiness, and she expects the person she dates to do the same.
She just mixes all the words up when she speaks because meeting new people is exhausting, OK?!
My point is you are not alone, so take a deep breath, be in the moment and let the conversation flow. Embrace being shy because there’s nothing wrong with it. This means going to events that make you anxious, staying for at least 45 minutes (usually anxiety will reduce after this time) and giving yourself credit for trying something different.
Imagine if everyone in the room tried to be the center of attention, the world would certainly be a chaotic, loud and overwhelming place! Note how you feel before you go to an event and afterward.