Dating in the dance scene is it possible
– there are some who like to kick it old school and go for the dinner and a movie.
If you’re looking for companionship of any kind, there’s no reason to refuse a casual invitation to lunch or dinner.
That is, of course, presuming that dates aren’t obsolete anymore.
While a lot of guys don’t even have the courtesy to take a girl out for dinner – or even coffee?!
He might have no idea that what he’s doing is hurting your relationships with your friends, but it’s up to you guys to stop him by cutting him out of the equation.
He’s graduating sooner than you are, and he knows it.
As a new student, you’ll get a feel for student life and get exposed to every kind of guy—frat boys, athletes, pre-meds, business students and artsy guys, too.
If they’re showing up for class at all, then you know they’ve at least got something going for them.
They know what’s up in this whole college world, and it can be quite nice to have a hot, older guy show you the ropes – he’ll let you know what parties are happening, bring you to date parties, introduce you to his friends and be a pretty face to show up in your tagged pictures on Facebook.
That said, don’t feel the need to hook up with him purely because he’s “older and wiser…” because he may just turn out to be pretty stupid.
If you’re interested, all it takes is a slow pack-up-and-hang-back after class to initiate conversation.
Find out where the hot spots are each night of the week(end), and make sure to show up every once in a while.