"Three in the past month.” How often do you have sex?
“Since getting out of a long-term relationship a year and a half ago, five.” How often do you have sex?
I have more agency now, and I know what I want and I go after it.
I try to be non-judgmental — especially since I do this often.
“Once a week for a few weeks when I'm seeing someone...which is every few months.” How do you meet the people you're sleeping with?
“Mutual friends/Tinder.” “Coupled sex was almost always sober; single sex is almost always drunk.