Woman with kids dating
Since my divorce a year and a half ago, my two children have never seen me go on a date.
As far as they’re concerned, I’m just Mom, who works full-time and does her best to keep up on laundry and dishes and science projects.
Overnight, I was thrown into a brave, new world -- one that involved a tween.
I scoured the Internet for advice about dating people with kids. I got the same advice from multiple people: "Be yourself." OK, what next? We were on and off, and it wasn't the healthiest relationship I've ever been in.
But lately I’ve begun to wonder if this is the best approach. I don’t feel the need to introduce my children to someone I’m dating unless it becomes a serious, committed relationship.So, all you single parents out there, how do you handle dating with kids? In her late thirties, she is learning to navigate the mysterious world of LDS mid-singles.Knowing that I was moving back to a small town after years of living in cities, I looked at my therapist and said: "I can't date someone who has children. And while I was in love with both the man and the kid, I was totally lost. There is nothing wrong with single or divorced parents. But my friends back home in the small town I was moving back to? He had a son with his ex-girlfriend, who I also remember from my past.But I worry about the emotional turmoil that could come if my kids meet someone I’m dating and then things don’t work out. However, I am considering inviting a small group of trusted friends, both men and women, to my house to help ease my children into the idea that I do interact with men in social situations.Mind you, “not working out” could occur in any number of ways: What if my kids don’t like him? Maybe how you handle it depends on how long the parent has been single.